If you want to create an instant link with a date say his/her name twice. This shows attention and connectivity. Remember bits of information about a person and try working them into conversations which shows interest. Keep a good hygiene, as bad breath and bad teeth are instant turn-off for potential dates. Women are more attracted to men who wear aftershaves and pheromone-based colognes such as 10 times. women have stronger sense of smell than men, and are particularly attracted to musk and black licorice smells.