Always try to maintain eye contact, as it is the primary and powerful tool for attracting a potential date. If your ex came your colleague then leave hopes, as it usually will not work. Women don’t fall in love easily, it will take 14 dates for them to fall in love. Men are more sincere in this fact, it takes just three dates for them. In America, twenty-nine percent had sex on their first date. If you want to start a conversation with a man, try to bring two other friends with you. It makes difficult for man to start conversation with you if you were with your friend, as he doesn’t want the other friend to feel abandoned.